If You Could Stop Aging, What Age Would You Choose?

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Imagine scientists discovered that aging could be paused.

Not reversed. You wouldn't become younger.

You could simply choose an age and remain there.

What age would you choose?

Twenty-five has obvious advantages. The body recovers quickly. Energy seems plentiful. Much of life still feels ahead.

But would you also want the judgment you had at twenty-five?

Perhaps 35 would be better. Or 45. Old enough to have accumulated some experience, young enough that the physical consequences of aging haven't become especially noticeable.

Except choosing an age turns out to be more complicated than choosing a body.

Because we don't age in only one direction.

Some abilities tend to peak relatively early. Reaction time and certain kinds of processing speed, for example, generally decline as adulthood progresses. Other capacities can remain strong much longer, while knowledge and expertise may continue accumulating for decades.

Then there are changes that are harder to measure.

You may become better at recognizing which problems deserve your attention. More comfortable changing your mind. Less interested in impressing people you don't particularly like.

The person who wants the body they had at 28 may prefer the judgment they developed at 48.

Which creates a peculiar problem for our imaginary aging switch.

There may be no perfect age to stop.

Every stage contains something we're acquiring and something we're beginning to leave behind. We usually notice the losses because they're easier to measure. The gains can be harder to see because they often feel like becoming ourselves.

Maybe that's why the answer to the question changes depending on when you ask it.

At 25, you might choose 25.

At 45, perhaps 45 doesn't seem nearly as old as it once did.

And years later, you may discover that the age you wanted to preserve wasn't necessarily the best one.

It was simply the best one you'd known so far.

If you could pause aging at any age, what age would you choose, and why?

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